This is a class blog for students in COMM 4014/6014 Communication on the Internet at the University of Memphis. This class examines the ways that individuals use the Internet and other related technologies in their everyday lives and social interactions. This blog represents the students' thoughts and interactions in this online class. Instructor: Kris M. Markman, Ph.D. www.krismarkman.com
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Blog 6
Blog 6 Internet Bonding
I became to feel a relief of someone who cares about how I'm doing. We can pick up the phone right then and have a long conversation, but a simple text can change a dark day until a bright day.
I belive the texting itself, helps relieves tention during the day. When we type any thoughts, we usually type really fast. This relieve tension of anger, I do believe.
After all, when causing a distraction, releases!
So, bonding on the internet leads to a strong healthy relationshiop that will lock in a good friend.
Blog 6 Relations
Cyberbullying...
The Pew report wouldn't load on my computer for some reason so I was not able to read the 2007 report but I did look up the report from 2010...
This was the report I read...
http://www.pewinternet.org/Presentations/2010/May/Cyberbullying-2010.aspx
The stats are not all that shocking to me, I see myself engaging in many of these myself from the daily routine that is (not the bullying)
To be completly honest its VERY shocking to see that only 32% of teens are bullied on the internet... I will say however it is VERY shocking to findout that 26% of teens are bullied on their cell phones, the problem I have with this statistic is that they don't specify what core of friends are doing the "bullying". Are they random people? If so this is disturbing... Are they close friends that already have the number? How do people get the numbers to bully these kids? These are questions that would skew this report a little, because if the student gives out the number to someone who in turn bullys them I don't think you can contribute that to the internet as part of "Internet Communication"
Ah this brings me to "Spam"
Outlawed by the Government in 2003-2004 Spam used to be a GREAT way for X rated sites to make a killing. I knew quite a few people who did it.. Spamming now is more about harassment and seeing 54% of teens receive spam messages is amazing, it really makes me feel like the giovernment outlawing something makes a difference... (not really) Spam messages (the majority of the time) are the end user's fault. People don't just guess Cell phone numbers. These kids have given their numbers to someone who has sold it to the highest bidder, I know because I have seen this happen 100s of times but back then it was about emails rather than cell phone numbers.
Seeing that social network users are bullied more often is not suprising either, ladies don't put a cute picture of yourself on facebook and not expect creepys to come out of the woodwork and harass you. I wouldn't consiter this bullying more or less just being stupid.
For some reason the Ling Reading would not load either and I was not successful in finding it through Google so I will comment with my updates on this reading tomorrow when I get to work and have access to another computer... I hope you enjoyed the Blog!
Whizzle izzle...
Teens vs Cell Phones (Round 1 Fight!)
Reading the articles by Ling and Lenhart I must say I am convince with the face-to-face results over the current years. Although teens have the number one text addiction in the world it's amazing how they can still manage to use face-to-face interactions. In the article, ‘Teen, Texting, and Social Isolation,” by Rich Ling, he shows how the rate of face-to-face is holding steady. Many teens outside of school contact their friends on a daily basic. The issue with texting, chatting, and blogging is this technology is always available and so are the users. In the article, “Teens and Mobile Phones,” by Amanda Lenhart and other varies authors, it shows how over the years mobile phones have been a solid source for communication. Technology within the mobile world is moving in a fast past every minute a new application is being brought to this fancy technology called cell phones. I myself find it hard to believe to text and chat with someone all day everyday and not see them this is impossible at least for me. For example, I know I am going to sound like I am nine but when my mom text me more then she calls my mind wonders. What is she doing that important that she just could not call? I guess it's the unlimited plan she has with her phone that gives her this option lol. But it makes me miss her and reminds me everyday why I can't wait to May 7, 2011 to gradate so I can move in the house next door by my mommy and have a real conversation face-to-face!
Blog 6
In Lenhart's research on teens and texting, several focus groups of different ages were asked questions about why and how they use their cell phones. The results concluded that parents wanted their teen or younger tween to have a phone for safety reasons but admit that mostly the teen wanted it to talk to friends. Some focus groups of the teens said that their parents wanted them to have the phone. I thought this finding to be surprising because it seems like the child would be begging for a phone. Also, the research touched on how teens did not mind being accessible all of the time to others. They said they did not find a phone call or text inconvenient. I am the opposite of that and feel that one of the most annoying things about having a phone and email is being on call all of the time. I thought it was interesting how many of the younger teens did not use the cell phone for the Internet activity but instead still relied on the computer. As they grow older, the study revealed the teens had their own jobs, which means they can afford their own plan resulting in their Internet acivity to be on their cell phone. I related more to the younger teen because I use my computer more for my Internet even though I do have Internet access on my phone.
I like Bayam's take on interpersonal relationships. Because the cell phone study done by Lenhart supported the idea that teens and parents find their communication better because of cell phones, I was confidant that Bayam agreed that because of the Internet, cell phones and other technologies, communication social ties are strengthened because of their existence. Even though there was a few excerpts that stated some research shows friendships more developed when formed face to face as well as partners who spend less time together and more time via Internet are less likely to share personal problems. Thus, as a cynic I would gather from these two sentences that there is a support of the issue that not all is better when communication is done primarily through the Internet. That there is still something to be said about looking someone in the face, spending quality time with them and sharing in each other's trials and tribulations. However, Bayam explains that as people are still trying to compare "online" and "offline" relationships the two differ so greatly they must not be compared. He explains in an analogy early in Chapter 6 about a relationship that developed over the internet that probably would not be developed if they would have met face to face. Their age difference and language barrier would have most likely set them too much apart in a social setting. However, because of the Internet their friendship has grown and flourished.
I believe that relationships grow stronger because of the people involved in the relationship. If they use the cell phone to call each other or IM every night at a certain time, I believe they are strengthening their ties together. On the flip side, I believe that many relationships are strong without using any technology to communicate and there is no void of any kind in which the Internet has to fill.
My hope is that my children will never text me goodnight from down the hall in our home. That as more and more of us accept the newest technology as a way of life, I hope that more and more of us will create boundaries and that we will keep some type of balance over the phenomenon of digital communication.
Monday, February 21, 2011
Interpersonal Communication
"Technology is natural" as written by William Revill, it is also necessary, that's what I say. It is each person responsibility to decide how these meadias will affect their lives. How much control will Twitter and Facebook have on the face-to-face encounters we have with each other.
Another point that was brought to light "people are doing the changing not the technology", so the control that we have is based on how we use communication medias. Will we let them alienate or isolate us from other people or is this the prep before our face-to-face conversations? We must remember online communication is different from face-to-face.
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Interpersonal Relationships and the Internet
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Blog 5 "I hate it when people call me, can't they just Text?"
-Whizzle Izzle... Back to the Internizzle...
Friday, February 18, 2011
Blog 5
Being my age, I have a lot of anecdotal stories to tell about just about everything. About 10 or so years ago, my wife and I went to visit a good friend of mine and his wife in Florida. This was the first time my wife had met this couple. We were there just for the night as we were continuing on to Daytona Beach and Orlando. Within a half hour of us arriving at their place, my friends wife was on AOL in one of the chat rooms showing us all the people she new and telling us their background, where they were from, etc. For the rest of the evening she sat with her back to us while my friend Charlie and I and my wife talked. She occasionally got up to get a drink or to say a few words, but for the most part sat at the computer typing away. After we returned home, Charlie called to apologize for her behavior and said that's all she does any more. He's doing the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids and she just chats all the time. They latter divorced and according to him, one of the reasons was her addiction to the chat rooms and how she neglected the home front. I know this one occurrence doesn't speak for all chat room users (and might even sound sexist), but the point is this kind of behavior does happen which falls right in line with the fears expressed in part 1 of the Boase reading. When I first got started on the Internet, before the web browser and the always on internet connection, you dialed up individual text based bbs's, poked around, then disconnected and went on to the next one. I would spend hours online after I got home in the evening calling bbs's all around the country. The weekends were great because I could stay up till the wee hours of the morning and didn't have to worry about going to work the next day. But, I attribute my behavior and Charlie's ex-wife's to the newness of the Internet. Back then it was so new, and to me so fascinating, to know you could communicate with remote people and computers via the phone line. Today, the younger generation expects it and the older generation thinks it old hat.
I don't see how the Internet could do anything other than increase your core and significant ties. It would have to be under very unusual conditions for the Internet to decrease your ties. The fact that Americans still rely heavily on in-person encounters and telephones is encouraging and understandable. Core ties are the people who are closest to you and so would logically lend itself to being the people you have the most in-person contact with, people you build personal, physical bonds with. The Boase article was statistically interesting and the video made interesting references to people differentiating between ‘real world’ friends and ‘online’ friends. The opening steamboat and technology reference also seemed to be true. Overall interesting stuff.
Mama says its the devil.
I absolutely enjoyed the digital interview with Baym. It made her words come to life. She had a great point at the end when she said that "your blackberry didn't make you do it". In my perception, she means that just because it is there- doesn't mean you have to use it that way. I will finish with that same idea that just because we have the ability to use the technology- doesn't mean we have to always use it. We can separate ourselves from it at free will. So maybe instead of blaming the digital world, maybe we need to create support groups for the addicted groups who have 10 Facebook accounts a piece and one for each dog and cat.
Please Step Away from the NET.......I Repeat
In today’s society the internet can either make you or break you. If you are in a relationship, married, or in love I am warring you please stay away from the net. Every since social networks hit the scene seems like the divorce rate is increasing. Social networks and access to porn is ruining interpersonal relationships and even the minds of children because it’s so easy to find these certain websites and get addictive. I think this is anyones' greatest fear losing a relationship they worked so hard for. To my surprise the Pew Internet Project feels it’s a “networked individualism,” so now it’s no long communicating within the household everyone is individual and is communicating in their own way. Rather it’s by cell phone, desktop, laptop, or iPads there is a way for everyone to talk to someone they want through a social network or an email. I called this “Secret Communication.” This is when you have people among you to interact with face-to-face but you rather socialize with someone on the internet. “Our work show that internet use provides online Americans a path to resource, such as access to people who may have the right information to help deal with health, medical or financial issue” (Boase 2). Seriously whatever happened to calling 411 or the phonebooks? Don’t get me wrong the internet is a very helpful source but sometimes they are scams on these resource websites.
Blog 5
In the Pew report much of the beginning describes the ideals of both sides of the fence. One being the notion that the internet is helping today's society connect, therefore, making people closer than ever and their communities larger than ever. On the other hand, there are those that fear that the interpersonal relationships and the sense of community is getting swallowed whole in cyberspace somewhere. While Pew's report was filled with abundant information (65 pages worth!) I found this statement to stand out in the text:
"The internet has fostered transformation in community from densely knit villages and
neighborhoods to more sparsely knit social networks. Because individuals-rather than households- are separately connected, the internet and the cell phone have transformed communication from house to house to person to person. There is `networked individualism. Rather than relying on a single community for social capital, individuals often must actively seek out a variety of appropriate people and resources for different situations."
In essence, I felt this statement summed up the results of the findings. This statement provides such a strong support of how the internet and cell phones have connected people. Yes, it admits that relationships are "sparsely knit" rather than "densely knit" but explains that although the former is true, the internet has fostered the transformation even still. It also supports the idea that having the internet among communities allow for individuals and groups to seek out people for various and specific situations, which in return creates more of a community withou borders.
I was suprised by the positive spin the article placed on the internet being such a unique fit to all types of communities. I was also intrigued by the discussion later in the pew report about the idea of email essentially filling the void of communication. I would have argued, before reading this report, that email is a cop out to face to face communication, but found this argument to be persuasive. The concept that is allows you to be freely communicating with others even when they are not up for immediate conversation is actually expanding the ties between the individuals. In the end, the concept of replacement was reassuring to those like me that worry the internet is taking over interpersonal relationships. The replacement hypothesis reported that ties were not severed among majority of groups that email, text, or IM. Instead, ties are strengthened and research says the users of these connections have stronger relationships because of the other ways they can connect.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Blog 5 CMC
On the other hand, CMC, deflects people from making real connections offline. It becomes so familiar as our source for communication with one another. As a Society we are losing connection with each others.
CMC has it pros and cons, so we as people have to make the decision on how much of it to use in our lives. Like in other thing in this world, we have to be careful on what we use and purchase.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Blog 4- webspeak
Friday, February 11, 2011
Blog 4 Oh yes!
I do believe that we can get by with it, due to the fact that everybody today, don't have time to really communicate or collaborate on things. So, they speak while in traffic and anything sudden to come out.
We all are guilty of it, and think it's holarious once we read the reply back. I general didn't like it at first, but I found out that it is the easiest way to communicate, while the pace is fast.
Webspeak (Sorry, I thought this was due today)
communication does not arrive very often, in the history of the race."(Thurlow, 2003) I suppose it is fascinating to be a part of a culture that is developing such a unique way to speak to each other via text and computer lingo. It is not only a way for people to shrinktalk and text less as far as keying in their information, it also allows for text to refer to things that only the viewer may understand.
I will be 29 in March. To most people that age isn't old, however, when it comes to webspeak I am ancient. I am constantly seeing a jumble of letters together and asking myself, "what does that one mean?" In essence, I feel that webspeak is an easy way to leave adults behind and allow the younger teens to communicate in their own world.
Thurlow's article refers to Herring discussing where linguistic writing will in fact effect the other areas of writing and non-linguistic work. It will directly affect those using it in great amounts. I am glad I am doing my short paper on this topic to learn more about webspeak and how it plays such a mighty role in our culture.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Blog 4
I found the fact that 52% of respondents report sending text message to say something they wouldn’t say face to face to be surprising. There’s either a lot of shy people (i.e., some one texting “I like you”) or the sender didn’t want to be around the person when they received the text message (i.e., some one texting “I want a divorce)”.
OMG LOL!! WTF Is Blog 4 Webspeak LMAO!!
Maybe they should just chill out and understand times are going to change....
That is Izzle... Fo Shizzle.. From...
-D-Whizzle...
Com'on We all Do It...........Webspeak lol!
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Blog 3(late)
As Baym introduced chapter 3 with face to face, over the phone, and finally internet communication- I found myself agreeing with pretty much every piece of information regarding the general preference for facial and audio recognition for "verbal and non verbal cues" over the internets lack thereof. When reading up on social cues, flaming, and the "antagonist", I couldn't help but randomly laugh extraordinarily loud due to the excerpt from the Star Trek forum. I have heard rumors of how some people on the internet can rip you apart, but this was beautiful-A great way to explain a flame war.
The only real experience I have had with non-English language on the internet was from
A. playing yahoo chess from someone in mexico (spanish speaking only sometimes)
or
B. when I clicked on the wrong tab for a website and I get a french version or something.
Honestly, I don't see these things as issues, just language barriers that the world has from being just that, a world. Unless the entire planet agrees on a universal language (go english!), I think we will be just fine by doing what we have been doing for decades.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Blog 2 (Late)
to, basically, laziness of typing a word. I see the abbreviations for words that will make our language lazy such as: lol, lmao, rofl, brb, gtg, ttyl etc. I tend to agree with both Baym and Herring when they state that these forms of CMC is continually making our world of language and communication more portable, therefore ending with a less personable means of communicating. One thing I thought really touched my thoughts perfectly was one phrase used in Baym's reading on page 34 of chapter 2.
"The internet would lead to the world Martin Luther King Jr. dreamed of, in which people would be judged by the content of their character rather than the color of their skin." Baym goes on to describe the superbowl commerical from MCI "There is no race, there are no genders, there is no age, there are no infirmities, there are only minds. Utopia? No, the Internet"
I believe that these words could not be more true of the internet, and that many points offered by both authors are actually well founded in these ideas.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
How Do U Want to Communicate?
In the last chapter we talked about the hopes and fears in the new technology world. In chapter 3 Baym discusses face-to-face communication versus internet communication. We can understand that not only are we living in an information world but a digital world too! A world in which we use social cues. The understanding of how people would rather communicate face-to-face because of Social Presence , which is the “level of interpersonal contact and feeling of intimacy experienced in communication” (Baym 53). When it comes to communication nonverbal and verbal language plays a major part every human being has used it one point or another in their lives. When Bayam explains the Social Presence Theory she turns our attention how the theory focuses on real and present; and the Medium Richness Theory which focuses on the medium. In other words this is how the world is operating rather we like or not? These are two very important theories in the world right now because it is how the world is communicating on a daily basis.
Blog 3
Languages, are really not important at all by this point. The world has languages that I can kinda see ass barriers to separate the rest of the world from the small portal we see in our daily lives. The language used by anyone means nothing anymore, with the way technology is becoming you don't need to speak 5 languages to have a conversation with someone in Arabic. It's a simple keystroke, a google search, and a cut/paste away from being able to tell someone on the other side of the planet they suck at grammar as well. Google has had translators that will load up entire HTML's now for several years, I have actually done business this way several 100 times. It's a great way to break any barrier of communication in the sales/business world.
All and all I think in the next 20 years there will be advances so strong in the language department that needing to know how to speak another language will be pointless, people will have handheld devices that will do it for us. Technology is awesome isn't it.
Can I get a hell yeah?
-David
Blog 3
I thought it interesting how Gander took note of the wide span of internet users that do not speak the written language that they are typing. Therefore, there speaking lanugage conflicts with what they are researching or typing on the internet. In this data, however, it is dated 2005 and earlier. The formula used relies on a formula from the Global Reach webiste. It would seem that much of this information would be hard to gather with trying to manage the cenus information, first language spoken and along with internet access.
In comparing Herring (1999) to the linguistic study, I found that face to face communication remains the key ingredient in communication. There is still a gap among people in their written skills and using the internet.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Blog 3
Also, in the standard English world flaming is intended to bring about rage or excitement to text. English text is sometimes looked at in a critical way when it single out. When I think of flame, I think of bursting words that expresses energy and wits.
Texting of today is mostly done by short detail words that are straight to the point. This text is not spelled out fully, but abbrevated to keep from doing long texting.
I myself don't approve of flame text, due to the fact that sometime I am lost by it. Sometimes when I see flame text, I respond back by saying, what? Smile. However, this is the new technology of today, and people are thrill about it.
Blog Entry 3
Ah, flaming; the bane of early newsgroup reading. I used to spend a lot of time reading computer newsgroups and to me it seemed to happen a lot. Seems like all it took was one misspelling, one misplaced innuendo, one statement misunderstood and Lord help us, it was Flame On! Some people did it just to try and show off their abundant trivial knowledge of a subject, while others did it just to be a jackwagon (my new curse word from the Geico commercial). And, while the last paragraph of the section "The example of antagonism" explains a lot of it, some of it can also be written off to maturity. People who flamed did so because they could get away with it, something they might not do in real life. It was like they had an alter ego.
The fact that most web pages are in English to me makes sense, since English is the world standard language, meaning it's the official language of several countries plus it is the most widely spoken international language. However, the web presents an excellent place to expand and archive any language that can be displayed with Unicode. Books go out of print, yet on the web, information is almost always (well, some web sites do go away) available. A web site dedicated to documenting a language would almost certainly be archived if not absorbed into another if needed and would not go away. The language could live on indefinitely. I’ve obviously seen websites in different languages, but not speaking any other language, they are more of a curiosity than anything else.
One thing the web has lead to, in my opinion, is tons of grammatical and spelling mistakes. It used to be that you could pick up a newspaper, read it cover to cover and never find a spelling mistake. It would be an embarrassment to the publisher if you did. Now a days, there is such a rush to get the story out as quickly as possible that hardly a day goes by that, if you look hard enough, you'll find either a spelling mistake or a blatant grammatical error on any number of respected news sites.