This is a class blog for students in COMM 4014/6014 Communication on the Internet at the University of Memphis. This class examines the ways that individuals use the Internet and other related technologies in their everyday lives and social interactions. This blog represents the students' thoughts and interactions in this online class. Instructor: Kris M. Markman, Ph.D. www.krismarkman.com
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Great Class
Anyway, I must admit we had a community, I'm not sure if any of us have exchanged any additional information, to do a face-2-face, but we have definitely created asynchronous "knowledge community". Although, we shared some character traits and likes and dislikes through our post and chat sessions, I came to expect certain comments during those chats and reading post. I also gather from posting that we were a diverse group within our selves, which was another reason why our view points would differ.
From observing the different blogs for class I see that people use different SNS media to meet new people and or display themselves. I did start to question some of my own relationship with people that know have to be on FaceBook or Twitter all of the time. I wander would I be surprised of the things I read or saw? I also thought would I look at them differently?
Technology has changed the way we communicate and that's a good thing. I know one day, probably tomorrow, our face-2-face will be reduced to molecules images of ourselves, talking to friend and family.
Thanks Kris this was really fun.
Friday, April 29, 2011
Make up for Chat 4/21
On with the post. I had a little laugh attack at the start of yall's chat because rats were the hot topic. Then the discussion moved to assure that we know the difference between communities and SNS sites. I look at these like chat rooms vs. Facebook. Facebook is about me as one individual connecting with who I know. A chat room or communities such as this are formed around a topic or subject rather than an individual. Then ya'll discussed the idea behind SNS and if anyone had more than one. I have a blog that I created for out of town family to keep up with pictures of my kids. I am horrible at updating it frequently. I also have a profile on FB and twitter. Although I only check facebook about once a week or so, and I have never "tweeted." I think I am in these SNS so I don't feel out of the loop. It is as if I don't want to get left out of all of the SNS hype but I'm not really great at keeping up with them like a lot of people. Wow, then Kris shocked the group with the profile thing by Yahoo that cannot be deleted. That is disturbing in itself. For the record, I loved reading the back on the chats. Our class is funny. Anyway, after reading the chat SNS has several benefits such as keeping up with folks and communicating with people you may not have given a chance in the first place. I thought the talk about how people have changed the way they hang out was so interesting. I've never thought about that because I am in mother mode and I hang out with my friends at lunch groups, play dates, baseball games, vacations ect...I don't really think about how the youth of America is hanging out together. I still think to some degree the small town southern kids are meeting at fast food restaurants or at least I hope so...it is fascinating that online communities is indeed changing that concept to some degree. Sorry again for missing the chat...it looked like a great one and thanks for allowing the make up post! :)
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Tis the end
I really enjoyed this guys, and though its not Christmas- I somehow always get real excited for the end of the semester. My favorite part was actually trying to troubleshoot our chat sessions with video haha. I likes learning of social cues and norms online, and wrapping them up in the end with an online community and reading of one on my own time. Had a blast guys! See ya next time.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
#14
What a Long... Strange Trip it's been...
Great Class I enjoyed it!!!
Sorry I missed a few of the chats...
Wizzle Izzle for the last Tizzle...
I Soo Love This Class!!!!!!!:)
This by far has been my best class. I enjoy talking about identity on the internet and how women and men can be identified through their webspeak. Women use softer words when they text and men are more aggressive when webspeaking. A teenager on the other hand; has takes webspeak to another level. It’s been proven that teenager’s texts on cell phone 90% of the time. When it comes to social networks (SNS) I believe adults are mostly on these sites but it really hard to tell with all the fake identity going on. SNS can be use for expressing oneself. People use SNS to be who they really want to be or to meet other people. Honestly people use SNS for varies reasons. I learned a lot in this Internet Communication class that I can take with me forever. I especially enjoy the video chats it really was a new experience. I’ve taken many online courses but never had to chat in any of them so that was really neat. Remember we are living in a time where a face-to-face environment can be just like an environment online. The question is which one do you prefer? I enjoy everyoneJ
Blog 14
Another thing I was guilty of before taking this class is seeing harmful affects on written language because of netspeak. I have enjoyed talking and reading about how netspeak is becoming a part of our culture and should be embraced. It does not have to be a negative influence on young people and it does not have to have an age limit. I remember posting about how sometimes netspeak makes me feel old and out of the loop. However, someone said in the class or I read it that we are very much a part of this changing generation. We are eyewitnesses of the digital age and to me that is really revolutionary. I have gained from this experience and would like to take another online class in the future. :)
Blog 14 Reflections
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Blog #13
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Bizzle 13tizzle Got Eaten by the Memphis Grizzllle!!
SNS networks are also a means for weaker relationships to stay alive, and for this gift they are amazing. I know so many people that come into Memphis that I would otherwise never see again that I can catch a comment on facebook and boom I can connect with them and meet them out when they are in town and keep an old relationship alive.
And uhum..... GO GRIZZZZZZZ
-Whizzle Izzle...
blog 13
Children are Just Having Fun On the Net (blog#13)
D. Boyd, describes children online as taking up space. There are different children from different cultures with all sorts of ideals. Children online assume they are not harming anyone online they look at their behavior online as “normative behavior.” Boyd, Ellison, Byrne, Steinfeld and Lampe feels the same things that happen face-to-face with children will also happen online. Children still play, joke, flirt, and take pictures. SNS can identify a person in a way they want to present themselves. One major benefit is meeting people all over the world that comes from varies of cultures. I find it amazing to meet people all over the world and just start up a conversation with them. On Twitter it’s really cool because someone would ask a question such as, “What celebrity would you date?” and everyone starts answering it. It’s funny because mines was Mekhi Phifer the actor and my Twitter fans would say something like, “Girl he don’t want you!” lol. Now the major drawback would be getting too personal with someone you do not know. The reason being you really don't know if the person is really identifying themselves.
blog #13- The past always comes back to haunt you
Blog #12- Social networking vs networking
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Lucky #13
Monday, April 18, 2011
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Blog 13 SNS Benefits and Drawbacks!
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Blog 12
Boyd and Ellison(2007),stated that when the term 'social networking site' is use to describe phneonmenon, the term 'social networking site' also appears in public discourse, and the two terms are often used interchangeably. We chose not to employ the term 'networking' for two reasons: emphasis and scope. 'Networking' emphasizes relationship initiation, often between strangers.
I agree with Boyd and Ellison in narrowing down what social networking really is. Social means casul and networking mean grouping or doing something together with several peoples. Networking is use for gathering ideas, thoughts, issue, questions or concerns on a partiuclar thing or subject.
Beer(2008), responses on how SNS sole purpose is to communicate on the web. It is use to connect people of all ethnic backgrounds together to share ideas. The way people use it proves that it is a networking site to bring strangers together, far and near. Communication usually starts just by a joke or simple post, then everybody begins to bring something to the network.
#12
Social Networks (Blog#12)
A social network can be defined as many things but in the case of Boyd and Ellison it’s define by three major points. First, it allows individuals to construct a public or semi-public profile within a bounded system. Secondly, it articulate a list of others users with whom they share a connection and finally, view and traverse their list of connection may vary from site to site (Boyd Ellison). In other words; social networks are connections to multiple viewers. Networking emphasizes relationship initiation, often between strangers. It also shows different CMC between the two users. Beer looks at it from a different angle. He ask the question what is missing? What might be missing from the existing body of work and to use this suggest some alternative ways forward to that imagined by Boyd and Ellison. Beer describes SNS in this age difficult and has earned the name “knowing capitalism.” I totally agree with Boyd and Ellison’s definitions. Today’s social networks are nothing but public profile of people lives at that moment. I strongly believe that SNS attract viewers and later build great relationships. But a community online is different from a social network. A social network in this case is trying to get to know someone or just trying to get to a certain amount of friends. Where as a community online is sometimes local within a local community that really aims to have an interpersonal relationship.
Blizzle 12 SN-onsense-S
Defining these things as a community or not a community doesn't matter, it's understanding of what the technology is capable of is whats more important and finding new ways to expand the "community" and bring more people together. Because knowledge is power and SNS's spread knowledge faster than any telephone or TV ever did.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Blog 12
I believe that SNS and communities coexist closely, but like Beer so states, SNS is for friends. Baym shows largely in that communities are for the support and the resources that sometimes can create into relationships such as friends, whereas SNS is built for interpersonal relationships.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Blog 11
Friday, April 8, 2011
Bonus Dwhizzle Blizzle For Everyone's Enjizzlemizzle...
How do they relate?
This is somewhat rhetorical because they are the exact same thing... Online communities are all of these things combined into one crazy commenting shat talking forum known as the internet. It's like a smorgasbord of angry opinionated assholes with no filter at all... I like to picture a gigantic party of people with masks on, some are monsters and creatures others use their real faces. I see it like this, when entering the party the host says... no matter what you will not be harmed and after you leave the room (page/blog/SNS/whatever) nobody will ever be able to contact you again unless you want them to. Imagine the things that could go down at that party.
The internet needs all these people (animals/or whatever else people make themselves look like) because without these crazy loons, "the family", internet trolls, or honest people there wouldn't be an online community. All of these identities are what creates the internet world. fake accounts such as the "Catfish" nut job on facebook are what internet identities are all about. The fact that you don't have to be what you want to be, you don't have to show how horrible your life is. People don't have to see a fat lonely depressed person who lacks in social skills and freezes when talking to a real person, when they are one quick google search/cut & paste away from making themselves a skinny smoking hot blond that is oozing confidence, screams sexy, likes walks on the beach and sex with multiple partners. (Yeah... I went there)
I think language is something that can tie all of these things together. Language makes you what you are, you can tell a lot about someone by their lingo, especially the internet lingo. Things like (...) as I like to use would steriotypically imply that this person uses a keyboard a lot for chat and likes to help the reader understand the thought process as they are typing. Someone who used ( :) :( ;) ;( >) >() and many many more) show their emotions and show they can be cute and quirky... The language is what makes people choose if they like you or not. Internet language has to be the most tweakable language possible... You can always mash that backspace button and say something else, this leads to people NOT saying the wrong thing. Take my girlfriend for instance, I am constantly saying things that upset her on accident because I assume things her mind doesn't decode like mine. This type of thing doesn't happen when we are chatting on the internet... I can always think before hitting enter... is this ganna get me in trouble? and then change something I don't like... These types of language also help to create a happier "internet" when it comes to the online communities. There are a lot of people who otherwise may have issues with one another in real life, that can sign on to an IRC chat room and be best buddies with that person. Another great thing about internet communities is you can turn them off whenever the hell you want. If you live in a neighborhood you can't shut your annoying neighbors dog up or make his alcoholic wife stop beating him up... But on the internet... you can just close that laptop up... and any problems are GONE... I know this is more of a riskay post but I feel as though it's more real, and can better explain things that a lot of the readings covered but didn't really fully apply themselves to... For many reasons because, and I know I always come back to this but it's true... They are old studies... I believe personally that any study done before 2006 should be thrown out because things have change DRAMATICALLY from then to now on the internet... It's not a history class it's a current event based class... I don't think we need to be using studies done in 2000 for a class in 2011... Just doesn't make sense to me... These colleges need to get more studies up because this is very interesting information I just feel as though a lot of it would be very different if you applies them to the internet by today's standards... I'm sorry the post was long but that was a very loaded question to comment on...
D-Whizzle Droppin knizzle...
Oh yeah... and thanks for letting me make up the chat session I made 200$ that night and I really needed it... BTW we have some videos up if you'd like to hear what we were doing :)
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Blog 11
Well, an online community is a place where people with like interests go to share info or get caught up on the lastest information on whatever topic the site is about, such as a site about your favorite sports team. To me, a random group of people would be places line Facebook, MySpace and other SNS places where you go not because of one specific topic they offer, but what group you can join once you are there. Sort of like the mall. Some might go for Macys, others JC Pennys. People are all there for different (shopping) reasons and while they are all there for shopping, they don't really co-mingle except when getting from one store to another. (I hope that makes sense).
People get involved in online communities for the very reason they are there...to share info and communicate with people with the same interest. I used to "lurk" amongst several Usenet groups back in the day, and I suppose it could be said that I still do as there are several sites I read everyday (lurk) and will once in a blue moon post something, but mainly I'm there to see the major posts and read some of the comments.
Blog 11
Virtue Community (Blog 11)
In chapter four Baym describes, “How a community can fall apart in the face of variety” (Baym 74). Chapter four also describes a community as a, “Common group through mere use of the site” (Baym 74). A community can be defined as many things but in this case it is known as a virtual community. People have been using computers for the past decade to communicate with each other. In the video Howard defines this as a virtual community. An online community is people you meet online and over time develop a relationship with. This relationship can later lead to face-to-face communication. A normal group of people is one that you just comment and chat to over the internet. This would be a social network such as, Twitter, Facebook, My Space and things in that nature. Most of the time online relationships are establish by someone who is looking for attention (in a good way) and someone who need a person to talk to. As Howard explained in the video the community came about through ancient technology when you had to do everything local. Which later on drew the group of people closer to each other. These people were there for each other (funerals, birthdays, weddings ect) and really try to make an online chat out of a relationship. Although I’ve never been a part of an online community, I think it’s a cool idea. In today’s society you really don’t have much of a choice when it comes to an online community. If you are on these social networks you would realize almost everyone has the same friends. So it's no longer local but worldwide and everyone is socializing between each other.
My Online Community Is Gated
Hahaha actually I tried and I couldn't find anything on it...is that computer really that old? Makes me feel old... am I old?? Am I talking?? Did they hear me??
I know Im crazy...
Thanks for reading...
-Whizzle Izzle...
Blog 11 Online Community
The difference between community and a person is that community identifies grouping and random singles out bloggers that lurk in and out from time to time. Being a part of a community occupies great space that endures long hours at a time. Then, being a random participate only put in maybe 30 minutes here and there, with no intent or interest at all.
Community involvement helps to connects to other people that are blogging on the web. This is done by creating a web page that allows you to sign in online with a user name to identify a specific page. After this is establish anybody that has a page can view your page and send messages. This allows interaction between grouping online.
By taking this class allows me to be a first time member of online community. I always hated to communicage online. I think it is too time consuming. I could be doing something more important. I do enjoy this class thought, it introduce to me a broader outlook on online communication. I may not create page,but I will know what the do's and don't are. Most important not to post personal information online that will hurt my identity. Also, not to trust every Sue, Ann or Pat.
Online community fits into our social lives by exchanging personal informatin back and forth online. Sometimes we exchange too much personal information to strangers that we don't know. Online community allows us to ask questions and to create a relationship online without face to face contact.
Monday, April 4, 2011
Blog 10- online anonymity
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Blog 10
Quian and Scott's findings show that that people with a higher degree of discursive anonymity may also have more self-disclosure, and when writing and communicating their own information on the internet to a certain audience determines the amount of anonymity. I think it is important to look at how and why people are disclosing so much information on the internet as well as what extreme opposite selves they are representing (such as the disabled man that is blogging as pro athlete). I believe it is important psychologically to evaluate this type of behavior to try and project the new sense of community and trust that we will have to form as a world that is online even more so in the future.
Blog 10
Blog 10 Make em say uhhh...Annon-y-na Annon-y-na
The study done on disabled people on the internet was more what I would expect out of the majority of people that use the CMCs. They are restricted and don't give out much information, they tend to use email as a form of communication and try to reveal the least amount of information about themselves. This is the way the internet should be and shockingly this was back in 2003!! Disabled people in a strange way can live a normal life online. Nobody can see whats wrong with them and it's as if they lose their "disease" if you will. It's similar to the movie that we watched in another class on Tuesday, "Catfish" Where a woman falls in love with a man based on the fact that her pictures show her as a smokin' hot model that she most defiantly was not. You could say that she had a disabled outlook of herself and therefore created something that she wanted to be her entire life. In the process she kinda broke a guys heart, but hey... He probably made a ton of money off it so I'm sure he's fine with it now.
Thanks for reading!!
-Whizzle
Identity versus Self-Disclosure (blog #10)
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Blog 10 Anonymity and Self-Disclosure
Disable people tend to want to conceal their identity while online, is what Bowker and Tuffin describes. A disable person don't want to be known for their disability. They will go on for a long period of time chatting online, and not let the other person know that they are disable and can't do what a regular person does. I do believe this is done out of fear of losing communication on the web. Some disable people are bored and need a hobby, while confined to their homes. I don't believe that they are being deceitful due to evil. But, I think it is done out of lonliness. Their is definitely a difference between bloggers that are after things of value, where as a disable person is after companionship.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Blog 9
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Blog 9,
Another part of the study that was interesting, homosexuality is still a touchy subject. I thought the idea of being able to choose who and what a person communicates is what usually takes place on the internet.
Lately, I have started to wander about a person's identity based on their perspective on a particular subject. I don't give it too much thought, because of the diversity of the internet and its growth. I also know that some CMC communities attract a certain idea of thinking based representation so" like minds" are drawn together. That leads me to Grasmuck, Marin, and Zhao's and the study of minority groups being more expressive via Facebook. I would not say more...it's not like minorities (we) have not had a voice. I mean like everything else, technology has changed the way people express themselves and with, Facebook being one the most popular and diverse CMC community, why not join in with everyone else. People usually see themselves in a certain light and embracing their heritage, knowing who and where you come from is important to our very being. So the fact that everyone else is catching up to what other CMC communites such as Facebook have to offer, is a good thing.
Now, whether or not I have given any thought to the race or gender of the class members that are not pictured, yes, I have and it was, merely based on comments made in the chat sessions and some postings. As far as assumptions, I can't say that I made any, so no, and I can't really think of a reason.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Blog 9
Blizzle Nizzle
Also blogs are used in the Gay community to express words without being subjected to hate speech from someone who doesn't understand. The blogs are a great way for gay males especially to meet and not be worried about what someone around them may do or say in public. 17% of the blogging community is gay and of that 17% 14% are male... That just goes to show you who is more accepted in the realm of society, and it also shows you how males use the Internet to meet other gay males in almost secrecy. In 50% of the roughly 500k blogs researched relationships were talked about. The majority of this population was male! surprised me... But the majority of gender on blogs are male so I guess that makes a little more sense.
The amount of information people put on blogs is amazing, 70% of people gave, get this, first names 68% age, 61% gave their CONTACT INFORMATION! And at the bottom of the list "full name" It's amazing that someone would be willing, in fact 61%, would be willing to give their location before their real names, kinda scary as well as just plain stupid.
When reading about the amount of post that African Americans, whizzles, Latinos and Indians post shocked me heavily! I do not have a very equal ground to stand on but the friends I have post just about everything they do it's actually quite disturbing. Also with the pictures, were they looking at mostly male pages or female? Did they count tagged pictures? Were there even "Tagged" pictures when this was done? I myself have over 300 pictures on my facebook... I have probably uploaded only 50...I think what I am trying to say is NONE of this information can be considered accurate because facebook is evolving daily and to be able to say "aww aww one race puts up more than another" is VERY ridiculous.
I personally don't think these sites effect gender or race regardless of what this or any study says. I feel as though the internet is an arena where people can be themselves and race (though in some situations is WAY outta control on the internet, IE Videos of black people looting or a white cult leader, sure they draw the racism out of people, and boy it can be nasty) but the other sides of the internet seem to be VERY colorblind as far as my experience. Take the class blog for example, I didn't know the students names at first I Was just reading post, I had no idea what anyone was, they were nothing more than other students to me. This is the outlook that I have always had on the internet because how or who are we to judge someone that we know nothing about, including their race.
"However, ethno-racial groups invest differently in their displays of “the cultural self.” African Americans and Latinos invest most intensively, Vietnamese and whites least intensively, and Indians fall somewhere in the middle of the continuum depending on the enumerated item." Grasmuck 2009
I found this statement to be very funny. In my personal experience with this it's because, quite frankly... I could give a crap about my heritage... I don't even know what I am?? I mean Im considered "white" to the masses but what am I really? I don't know... This is why I think white people don't put as much information about their cultural lifestyle because it's just not as important to us... I know I have Indian in me but how much? I have no idea... Irish? Sure... How much ? I have no idea... At least if you are black/latino/Indian you know what you are and can embrace some sort of heritage/culture... When you're a white mutt, what do you have to talk about when it comes to history that doesn't somewhat embarrass me? ... Not a whole lot... Also not to mention we don't have a great deal of culture to us now do me? We're kinda bland int hat regard... I just felt that would be the common answer to why this statement is the way it is.
-Dizzle droppin knizzle fo shizzle...
Is this really a man or a women? State your nationality? (blog 9)
Online identity has to be the most common thing of the two-thousands. “Physical constraints such as body, biological sex, race or age can have profound effect on self- definition and self – presentation” (Collins & Kuczaj, 1991). Online identity is way of discovering the new “you.” It is what I like to call “your world,” you can present yourself the way you want others to imagine you as, and also say things to either sound older or younger. The age group 13-17 are knows as the adolescents stage. Teens bring blogging and hidden identity to a whole new level of the internet world. Statistic show it’s more female then male blogging and chatting all day with strangers from different races. The problem with race and gender on the internet is, one is not certain if there is a for sure man, women, boy, girl, black, white or, Spanish ect they are chatting with. When people are chatting with unknown people they use cues to help figure out their race and gender. The funny thing is it doesn’t always work. Any race or gender can use words like, honey, baby, love, and sexy so you really have to be extra careful maybe use webcam. CMC states that women may use softer words then men but to me it's pretty much the same. One great example is, I have an older lady in my class but she always writes from a male point of view. So I always thought she was a man. When I found out she was an older woman, I could have kick myself in the head. I ask her one day, “Why do you always write from a male point of view?” She stated, “I raised five sons by myself so that is really the only view I can relate too! I felt crazy after that so, cues really don’t always work! Any other suggestions to unlocking the mystery of a gender or race?
PS: The person I am stalking is on twitter: @lillanaloveable
Blog 9
One certain characteristic of computer mediated communication that is insightful is emoticons. Huffaker and Calvert reported on Witmer and Katzman’s finding about the signals found through emoticons. “In a case study of 3,000 online messages, Witmer and Katzman
(1997) found that females used more graphical accents, including emoticons, to express emotion in their discourse than males (Witmer & Katzman, 1997), a pattern that is also reflected in adolescent males' tendency to deny their feelings, including sadness (Ruble & Martin, 1998). In an analysis using instant messaging dialogues, males rarely use emoticons in conversations with other males, but do use them with females, while females use an equal amount of emoticons in both male and female conversations (Lee, 2003). I found this part of the research to be interesting because it seems like in most conversations women are more likely to use expressions and extensive emotions and explaining when the speak. I think it is fascinating that it translates through with the use of expressions on the computer.
According to the article, Ethno-Racial Identity Displays on Facebook by Sherri Grasmuck, Jason Martin and Shanyang Zhao, there are other aspects of identity other than a name, age or gender that has reason for attention as well. Studies have looked at race and ethnicity and how it affects the internet dynamics and communication. I don’t feel as a reader that I am too concerned about race or ethnicity of the author of the material I read. I feel indifferent when it comes to knowing too much about someone when I read online, however, if I was getting into a relationship of some sorts I would obviously care what the background of the other person was. I believe that the nature of the setting or environment constitutes the need for more information when necessary.
Blog 9 Gental and Racial Identities
Grasmuck, Martin and Zhao(2009),desparetly tries to enlighten us with the difference in online contexts. They wants us to know that their really is a difference due to the fact that males and females have different insights. For one, the female may come off as a feminine role of a passive person that's deep in her feeling, while texting online. Some words will give a female away by the way she uses her words, or by the sound of words she uses. On the other hands, males may come off harsh and dominate. They might use profanity and words that are disrespectful. Male sometimes get upset quicker on social networking, whereas, the female delete and keep moving. Here we have patience and impatience.
Also, the female and male character may be given away by his or ethnicity background. This can be determined by the tone and social position. The characteristic can also be a factor in determining male or female gender. Your profile can tell a person if your hard or soft. Meaning some females have soft tenderness tone, and some males have a strong, masculine tone.
CMC is looks upon as a way to determine gender as well. CMC context single out how females uses words that are gentle to the touch, whereas males uses wording of aggression attitude.
Doing this class, I have never thought about the gender and race of anyone that I interact with in this class. I look at each individual as a whole. We all bleed red blood, and there is only 1 God. So, I am content knowing and believing in that powerful statement.
I will say that I label a person on the internet by male or female, by their names. It's hard, but I can tell a female name from a male name. MOST of the time. Smile.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Turkle's, "Aspects of Self", gives a very alarming perspective, of SNS communities, alone with detailed real life scenarios. The world is changing because of information technology so rapidly and how we interact with each other is at the forefront. Yes, people do pretend to be someone else and yes, I feel the Internet, alone with the MOO's and MUD's communities are where some the performances take place. Where as, watching the news and crime shows, really bring things to life. Personally, because of my background in IT, I have always handled the Internet with a "long handle spoon". I mean it's as trusting and reliable to us as the person's waiting to respond, especially in the SNS communities.
The blog that I am following is very informative by Dr. Melody McCloud who is a contributor for "Psychology Today" and several television magazines. Her profile list various credits and accolades obtained during her career. Nothing or any information seems questionable. I'm sure there's a possibility that her photo may need updating :)
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Blog 8
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Blog 8 Identity
Blizzle Eizzle On St. Pizzle Dizzle...
blog 8
As Bayam points out in Chapter 5, "When people's bodies arent' visible, will people like about who they are? Can they be known? Can they be trusted? Can the relationships they form be valid." He continues to discuss how the notion has always been believed in many cultures that every one has one true self, and yet, digital media is changing this belief up by allowing people to desembody their identities. This discussion opens that, while many honest people are using the internet blogging and posting on SNS, there is still the idea that most people are going to put themselves in the light in which they choose to be seen by the public. Therefore, this choice allows people to change or tweak as they see fit. What I liked most about the Bayam's discussion was the cues and competence. This explains how people can still be honest but basically they are deciding how their audience will perceive them. This is what I am hoping for my blogger. I think she is honest but is leading us down confessions and tell-all posts so that we get to know her better and root for her when she isn't quite so perfect.
In Turke's chapter, describes online identities as something that we self-create to allow ourselves the freedom. She best describes internet identity by saying that it is the new way for us to construct who we are in life. My blogger, Katie, does just this type of writing. She is describing herself and her views as if she is figuring it all out as she writes from day to day. I feel that Turkle's observations of how people change or construct to put pieces of self together is true for my blogger. One of Turkle's questions that was raised in the article read, will the commupter mediated relationships satisfy our need to connect? I thought this was interesting because my blogger really does have a lot of feedback (she is a published blog), and I thought about how she asks for responses to things or writes about controversial topics and I wonder if this is her main source of friendship feedback. She has talked about how she hasn't made a lot of new friends in Florida where they recently moved. Maybe the computer, for my blogger, is replacing he human connection. This then would suggest that some of her confessions and honest raw material is coming from a place of wanting to connect with her readers and give them a reason to write and discuss back with her. As natural and wonderful as she sounds on her blog, I have thought before (I have followed her blog before this class), that we could really be friends (not in creepy, stalker way), but I have just thought of how we read the same books, have kids, great husband ect.. and yet Walther's article pointed out something that stood out to me. It explains that the unique thing about CMC is the time that can or may be spend in editing writing. This time allows someone to really put effort into exactly waht they want to say. This idea makes me consider that there is a possiblity that what she puts out there may not match up to make some awesome, fun girl on the other side of her writing. There is a chance that she is just a really great writer.
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It’s amazing how a person can define a persons’ identity without even meting them, although their characteristics can play a major role too! I like to call this type of greeting, “cyber relationship.” In out textbook Baym, describes new relationships that are formed online every day. How can you form a relationship without meeting a person or shaking their hand? With the help of technology anything is possible. In the reading Turkle, describes humans as, “learning to see ourselves as plugged-in-technobodies” (Turkle). The internet is taking over the world even in our love life.lol Human beings identity has become multiplicity. People who use the internet are capable of building themselves to whatever and whoever they want be. The problem is, it becomes manipulative and unfair to the person whom is sharing their real identity (if one is sharing). Turkle explains how some people are able to go months without meting a person and still carry on an intimacy relationship. People are usually able to do this through a virtual chat session. One virtual social network is MUD (multi-user dungeons), this site allows you to meet and collaborate with different people within a room something like Twitter,Facebook, and MySpace. My blogger main focus everyday is minding someones' business. He has a creative style, post pictures and videos, and shows varies of interviews about today's relationships even the ones online. Freddy O has been around for a while and yet is the only non-celebrity that gets all the celebrities pictures. Can we say nosy lol. I hope he doesn't catch me stalking his twitter page or i'll be in social network jail!lol